I chose this image to represent what my blog will focus on. The "if-then" factor in marriage. This blog is not going to be an "aw so sweet" blog about the blissfulness of marriage. It will talk about hard and true facts about marriage and the factors that can make or brake a marriage. I will start off saying sorry to all of you newly weds, that are blissfully happy right now. Because, if you are not blissfully happy right now, there is a big issue, because it is only going to get harder, and if you start off with big issues, watch out they will only get harder and worse.
I love being married (most of the time). I absolutely LOVE my husband and want to desperately to stay with him.
Abraham Lincoln said,
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/topics/topic_marriage.html#UGWClApbY1xTeSML.99
I loved this quote because it explains how it is up to us which way our marriages will turn out. This life is a time to prepare to meet God (and to make up our own decision at to where we eventually want to return to, Heaven or Hell.
Alma stated in chapter 34- 32 For behold, this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors.
33 And now, as I said unto you before, as ye have had so many witnesses, therefore, I beseech of you that ye do not procrastinate the day of your repentance until the end; for after this day of life, which is given us to prepare for eternity, behold, if we do not improve our time while in this life, then cometh the night of darkness wherein there can be no labor performed.
34 Ye cannot say, when ye are brought to that awful crisis, that I will repent, that I will return to my God. Nay, ye cannot say this; for that same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life, that same spirit will have power to possess your body in that eternal world.
I know that I chose to marry my husband Mike. I felt and knew that it was the right thing to do, and now it is up to me to stop the 'if, then" games and make a choice for myself and for my family, if I will follow the lessons from Alma, and repent, and not procrastinate, or to procrastinate and possibly lose everything that I dreamed of, because of pride.